Why Me? Why do I Have to be the Gay One?

Oh my goodness, how many times do we ask ourselves this? SO many. We don't want to be the one that's fallen in love with her best friend. Or the one who can't seem to feel as happy with guys as our friends seem to be. Why can't we just be NORMAL?!!


Trust me, most queer people have been here. I'm saying most because we have those unicorns in the LGBTQ+ community who grew up with affirming families & friends and were affirmed in their identity from the womb. Let's take a moment of silence to grieve why we were not so lucky.....okay moment over.


Now, why you? Why not you? Why not the amazing person you are with the gigant